Are you ready to date a great partner? Are you considering meeting them online? Read on...
We all read information in each other’s eyes. You can confirm this if you notice an awareness that something is missing when you look at someone wearing dark sunglasses.
Subconsciously, we all choose partners based on what we see in their eyes. We have no idea we do this. Our default patterning can influence or even control who we are attracted to. What if you could choose your attractions consciously? Who would you choose? Why?
I read ThriveTypes, a set of archetypes for thriving, in people’s eyes to describe their soul. ThriveTypes are particularly useful in romantic relationships for recognizing our repeating, unhealthy dating patterns and shifting to consciously attract and be attractive to better matched partners and optionally soulmates.
Most people are navigating a set of 4 Lessons in dating and relationships, subconsciously (or consciously!) choosing partners who are:
1. like one or more of their parents, which brings up family of origin issues (or the opposite of their parents)
2. different than themselves, often the most difficult people to be with
3. mirrors who are like themselves, with whom there is naturally easy and deep connection, plus this is the fastest way to grow in loving yourself
4. expressing a similar purpose, who often also make great partners for sharing contributions in work as well
Most people are subconsciously and repetitively choosing partners who are a combination of Lessons 1 & 2, whereas Lesson 3 is so much more fulfilling, easy and joyful. In this workshop, Laureli will explain the psychology underlying the 4 Lessons of Love, provide exercises and mini Eye Readings of you and exes (bring photos of them and of your parents!) to help you determine where you are in these lessons, and provide lots of tips for consciously connecting with partners who represent your Lessons 3 & 4. For those dating online, recommendations for Conscious Online Dating will be provided as well. All relationship lifestyles are welcome.
My Conscious Online Dating Guide which includes a list of words you can use in your online dating profile based on your ThriveTypes and lots of other great tips for online dating, will be available for $5.
Class is at Vitamin Life at 15830 Redmond Way in Redmond
Intuitive Eye Readings will be available after the class for $2/min. For the most thorough reading, bring photos of your parents and exes (that show your eyes).
More info at www.DatingPatternsAndPurpose and www.ThriveTypes.com
Laureli Shimayo is a life, leadership and love coach, matchmaker, teacher and author. She offers Intuitive Eye Readings of ThriveTypes and Body Psychology Coaching to empower people and organizations to thrive.