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Class: Conscious Online Dating w/Eye Readings at Seattle Tantra in Seattle

  • Seattle Tantra Community 9414 Roosevelt Way Northeast Seattle, WA, 98115 United States (map)


This class is a combination of:

1) common subconscious and often problematic attraction patterns - 4 Lessons of Love,

2) unique ways to conscious hack these to attract and be attractive to aligned soul partners - Intuitive Eye Readings, explained plus sample readings of you and partners/exes - bring photos, and

3) lots of tips for Conscious Online Dating for those desiring to connect in this way (I recommend it!) - great for newbies and experienced online daters.

Moe of my approach is described below:

We all read information in each other’s eyes. You can confirm that you do this yourself by noticing that something is missing when you look at someone wearing dark sunglasses.

Subconsciously, we all choose partners based on what we see in their eyes. We usually have no idea we do this. Our default patterning can influence or even control who we are attracted to. What if you could choose your attractions consciously? Who would you choose? Why?

I read ThriveTypes, a set of archetypes for thriving, in people’s eyes to describe their soul. ThriveTypes are particularly useful in romantic and partnered relationships for recognizing our repeating, subconscious, often unhealthy patterns and shifting to consciously attract and be attracted to better matched partners and optionally soulmates or twin flames.

Most people are navigating a set of 4 Lessons in dating and relationships, subconsciously (or consciously!) choosing partners who are:
1. like one or more of their parents, which brings up family of origin issues (or the opposite of their parents)

2. different than themselves, often the most difficult people to be with

3. mirrors who are like themselves, with whom there is naturally easy and deep connection, plus this is the fastest way to grow in loving yourself

4. expressing a similar purpose, who often also make great partners for sharing contributions in work as well as romance

Most people are subconsciously and repetitively choosing partners who are a combination of Lessons 1 & 2, whereas Lesson 3 is so much more fulfilling, easy and joyful. In Lesson 2 there is a lot of polarity from our differences, however we likely feel less of a soul connection. In Lesson 3 we feel a deep soul connection and quickly grow through our own lessons with such a person to be more authentic and appreciative of ourselves (albeit, for those who practice Tantra, it might require greater skillfulness and nuance to flow our energy - so this can also be a great way to become more skillful!).

In this workshop, Laureli will explain the psychology underlying the 4 Lessons of Love, provide exercises and mini Eye Readings of you and exes or partners (bring photos of them and of your parents!) to help you determine where you are in these lessons, and provide lots of tips for consciously connecting with partners who represent your Lessons 3 & 4 (or whatever you choose).

For those dating online, lots of recommendations for Conscious Online Dating will be provided as well. If you have an online dating profile, bring it!

All relationship lifestyles are welcome. Teens are welcome too.

Class includes 1) my Conscious Online Dating Guide with a list of words you can use in your online dating profile based on your Eye Reading and ThriveTypes and lots of other great tips for online dating, 2) a PDF of the slide presentation, and 3) mini Intuitive Eye Readings.

Class is on Thursday Jan 31, 2019 from 7-9:30pm at the Seattle Tantra Community at 9414 Roosevelt Way NE, Seattle, WA 98115.

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Class is $35. Sign up by Jan 21 for $30.

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Complete Intuitive Eye Readings of all your ThriveTypes with some info on your parents and exes are also available for $2-4/minute (in public or private, shorter or longer session). Contact for more details.

Laureli Shimayo is a life, leadership and love coach, matchmaker, teacher and author. She offers Intuitive Eye Readings of ThriveTypes and Body Psychology Coaching to empower people and organizations to thrive.