Conscious [Online] Dating Coaching & Matchmaking

Conscious Online Dating Class

The class includes many tips for advanced online daters and also many for beginners, including: tuning your profile and searching for and writing to your most aligned dates. My Conscious Online Dating Guide is included with the class along with a PDF of the presentation.

3 Options

In Person in Seattle on Thursday January 31, 7-9:30pm: $35
By video Online on Saturday February 2, 2-4:30pm: $30
Video Recorded Class - Watch Anytime: $20 (text me for quick access 720.352.2434)

Class Options: In Person, Online or Recorded
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Most people are subconsciously attracted to (and attracting) the most challenging people for them to be with. ThriveTypes archetypes provide an explanation for why and how we do this...and also a way to instead choose and attract great partners consciously!

I'm a savvy matchmaker and online dating coach, so I often recommend clients use online dating - and my dating tools work very well with meeting in person too, or as one client calls it, "dating in the wild."

Are you avoiding the possible pain of dating and online dating in particular: choosing the same type of partner and problems again, scammers, liars, few replies, bad dates, and wasting time going nowhere? 

Are you avoiding the possible pain of dating and online dating in particular: choosing the same type of partner and problems again, scammers, liars, few replies, bad dates, and wasting time going nowhere? 

Are you ready instead for conscious connection, transparency, authenticity, co-creativity, passion, playfulness, curiosity and growing together - for an easy, deeply connected relationship that lasts?

If you're conscious and authentic in so much of your life and want to go on dates with conscious and mature people with whom you might create a conscious and authentic partnership - with ease - you've come to the right place.

My Conscious Online Dating tools make the process quick, easy and super effective at finding and connecting with conscious dates and creating conscious relationships! I’ve matched myself and hundreds of others. Many conscious partners - past clients and many of my friends - now live together, are engaged, and are growing together! [For example, learn how to take the best online dating photos at this blog.]

I match people by their eyes. I know this might seem a bit strange at first, but I bet you’ve heard the phrase “Eyes are the window to the soul” and you have some sense that it is true - you know you’re missing a lot when you can’t see someone’s eyes (think dark sunglasses).

In people’s eyes, I see and describe their soul using ThriveTypes® – a set of archetypes for thriving. I read people’s eyes with a combo of science and art. I am an Intuitive Eye Reader. I'm also certified in leadership, life and love coaching with training in body psychology and science degrees from UC Berkeley and Caltech. I'm passionate about conscious relationships and dating and relationships as a pathway for growth and transformation. Learn more about me here.

Are you ready for a conscious relationship now?

With ThriveTypes, you’ll:

·      clarify your great contributions and needs in relationship
·      amp up the authenticity of your online dating profile and photos (e.g., get your natural Talents in your profile and your Masks out)
·      radiate your consciousness to attract conscious dates (share your World View)
·      identify and end old relationship patterns so you don’t repeat them
·      choose conscious dates who mirror you, really see you and meet you - plus authentically share themselves

With dating coaching, you’ll:

·      choose the best online dating sites
·      simplify writing and responding to dates to get more and better replies
·      show up more authentically in all your romantic interactions
·      more easily say NO when someone is not right for you
·      shift and evolve your attractions to healthier (and better for you) people
·      recognize potential soulmates and mirroring partners with increasing ease

One of most useful traits of ThriveTypes for identifying old dating patterns are a person's Talents. You can get started by looking through this website at the descriptions of the Talents and then filling out this chart:

If you want to, you’ll likely start a new, fulfilling relationship within 2-3 months of regular coaching with me...

We'll look at your ThriveTypes, chart your relationship lessons and write/tune your online dating profile and to include truly representative photos. When I've been single during the last decade, I have gone out with fewer than 7 people before my next great relationship has begun. I'm good at dating, and I want to teach and coach you so you are good at it too - so you can be in a great relationship and be done with dating!

I’ve met my last several partners online, including my current partner of 2 years. I walk my talk. My personal dating history and philosophy is online in a 15 minute TED Talk style video:

Read about my approach in this article at

Laureli co-authored a book on the 7 Talents of ThriveTypes in 2016. Order directly from or on Amazon.

Get Laureli's 19 page Conscious Dating Guide as part of her Conscious Online Dating class (or buy it here):
Eyes Are the Window to Your Soulmate: A Guide to Using ThriveTypes Eye Readings for Conscious Online Dating
by Laureli Shimayo

Conscious Online Dating Class - 3 Options

Live in Seattle on Thursday January 31, 7-9:30pm: $35 Drop-in or $30 Early Bird by January 21
Online on Saturday February 2, 2-4:30pm: $30 Drop-in or $25 Early Bird by January 21
Video Recorded Class Anytime: $20

Class Options: Live, Online or Recorded

Reach out to or 720.352.2434 with questions.

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Laureli is a Connectress, having been a matchmaker and dating coach since 2007. Her specialty is ThriveTypes Intuitive Eye Readings, and she also incorporates her training and certification in body psychology, psychotherapy, conscious loving and living, business strategy, and leadership coaching. Learn more about Laureli and her coaching here.

“Thank you, that was such a great class!  Everything you said made so much sense and really got me thinking about who I am attracted to. I've already been getting more likes on OKC, so I think those few changes you suggested have shifted something. I definitely will run people by you that I am considering.” – Single (not for long) Health Coach

“I credit your coaching for finding a good match that matches ME. He really sees me and appreciates me. It’s the first adult relationship of my life and I’m fully in.” – Leadership Consultant

“I want to express my deepest gratitude for the wonderful coaching session you gave my partner on dating and relationships. Your divine counseling was instrumental in her choosing me in her search for a soulmate [last year]. I have never felt so met and in so many ways in my entire life and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.” – Soulmate

“I literally did everything you told me to do – and everything worked!” No Longer Single

"Following our epic advice on how to engage, I received this happy reply: 'Yours is the best first message I have ever received from Bumble!'" – Single (but not for long) Leadership Coach