Conscious [Online] Dating Coaching Group

Most people are subconsciously attracted to (and attracting) the most challenging people for them to be with. ThriveTypes provide an explanation for why and how we do this...and also a way to instead choose and attract great partners consciously! Plus I'm a savvy matchmaker and online dating coach. I often recommend clients use online dating, and all these tools work live too. Read on...

Are you avoiding the pain of online dating: scammers, liars, few replies, bad dates, and wasting time going nowhere? Or worried about choosing the same type of partner and problems - again?

Are you ready instead for conscious connection, transparency, authenticity, co-creativity, passion, playfulness, curiosity and growing together - for an easy, deeply connected relationship that lasts?

If you're conscious and authentic in so much of your life and want to go on conscious dates and create a conscious and authentic partnership - with ease - you've come to the right place.

My Conscious Online Dating tools make the process quick, easy and super effective at finding and connecting with conscious dates and creating conscious relationships! I’ve consciously matched myself and hundreds of others. Many conscious partners - my past clients and personal friends - now live together, are engaged, and are growing together!

[Past dates are shown below - this group is ready to get restarted again when there is enough interest - let me know if you are interested!!!]

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I match people by their eyes. I know this might seem a bit strange at first, but I bet you’ve heard the phrase “Eyes are the window to the soul” and you have some sense that it is true - you know you’re missing a lot when you can’t see someone’s eyes (think dark sunglasses).

In people’s eyes, I see and describe their soul using ThriveTypes® – a set of archetypes for thriving. I read people’s eyes with a combo of science and art. I am an Intuitive Eye Reader. I'm also certified in leadership, life and love coaching with training in body psychology and science degrees from UC Berkeley and Caltech. I'm passionate about conscious relationships and dating and relationships as a pathway for growth and transformation. Learn more about me here.

Are you ready for a conscious relationship now?

Join my online group of dedicated, passionate, authentic online daters who are ready to be off the hamster wheel of typical online dating and into a fulfilling, aligned, conscious relationship. Now.

With ThriveTypes, you’ll:

·      clarify your contributions and needs in relationship
·      amp up the authenticity of your profile and photos
·      radiate your consciousness
·      identify and end old relationship patterns so you don’t repeat them
·      choose conscious dates who mirror you, see you and meet you plus authentically share themselves

With coaching, you’ll:

·      choose the best online dating sites
·      simplify writing and responding to dates
·      show up more authentically in all your romantic interactions
·      more easily say NO when someone is not right for you
·      shift and evolve your attractions
·      recognize potential soulmates and mirroring partners with increasing ease

One of most useful traits of ThriveTypes for identifying old dating patterns are a person's Talents. You can get started by looking through this website at the descriptions of the Talents and then filling out this chart:

Join my coaching calls to discover your Talents, dating patterns, the characteristics of your soulmates and how to find them, and much more!

You’ll likely start a new, fulfilling relationship within 2-3 months of coaching with me...

...after we’ve looked at your ThriveTypes, charted your relationship lessons and tuned your online dating profile and photos. I have gone on fewer than 7 dates every time I’ve been single during the last 6 years – before my next great relationship has begun. I'm good at dating, and I want to teach you, coach you. I’ve met my last several partners online. I walk my talk. Get more background on ThriveTypes and dating below and on this website.

My personal dating history and philosophy is online in a 15 minute video:

Group Coaching Details

Attend as many sessions as you want. Typically 7 are offered each month. This group is now combined with the Drop-in Coaching Group, so participants may ask questions about other topics (not dating and matchmaking) as well.

Cost is $25/drop-in or $100/5 sessions. The 5 session package also includes Laureli's 19-page Conscious Online Dating guide.

Everyone is welcome: all gender identities, ages, preferences, newbies and experienced online daters, etc.

We meet using Ideally connect with us by video - phone can work too (but you can't see my screen or show us your photos, online dating profile, etc.). Each week there is a different link. Details on each session are sent out by email if you register ahead. We always use the same video link for ease. When it gets busy, I'll add more events.

Upcoming dates include (75 minute video sessions):

Laureli co-authored a book on the 7 Talents of ThriveTypes in 2016. Order directly from or on Amazon.

As part of the Coaching Group get Laureli's 19 page booklet (or buy it here):
Eyes Are the Window to Your Soulmate: A Guide to Using ThriveTypes Eye Readings for Conscious Online Dating
by Laureli Shimayo

Reach out to or 720.352.2434 with questions.


Laureli is a Connectress, having been a matchmaker and dating coach since 2007. Her specialty is ThriveTypes Intuitive Eye Readings, and she also incorporates her training and certification in body psychology, psychotherapy, conscious loving and living, business strategy, and leadership coaching. Learn more about Laureli and her coaching here.

“I credit your coaching for finding a good match that matches ME. He really sees me and appreciates me. It’s the first adult relationship of my life and I’m fully in.” – Leadership Consultant

“I want to express my deepest gratitude for the wonderful coaching session you gave my partner on dating and relationships. Your divine counseling was instrumental in her choosing me in her search for a soulmate [last year]. I have never felt so met and in so many ways in my entire life and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.” – Soulmate

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